This article is brought to you by Ignixia Roberts. Ask any kinkster and they’re likely to agree, negotiation is vital to setting up consensual kink play and even an important basis for dominant/submissive relationships.Before we get into different styles, what is negotiation?Most often “negotiate” is a word we see when it comes to business deals in the non-kink world which means “to obtain or bring about by discussion.” In the kink world negotiating is the discussion we have before play, forming relationships, or other related activity to make sure that all sides involved are able to get what they want out of a situation. This is where we obtain consent for things to come.How negotiating things to come depends greatly on the negotiation…
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